Saturday, April 26, 2008
Friday, April 25, 2008
At the Lake House
Cora found a new love... Doesn't she look like a little old pro? Actually, after watching her try and drive the little Jeep, I have decided it is a good thing that a right to drive is years away! Her cousin David is an amazing driver however. He is her same age but his eye, hand... well, driving coordination is awesome! WOW! We were all impressed. He was so cute trying to give Cora tips, but most of all just being patient with her, he just made it enjoyable. What a great kid... He is a great person to have your kids around... He knows how to share REALLY well. Cora was in heaven, and we were so happy at how well they played together. David doesn't live here, and when they come into town it seems like we get only a moment with them. We miss them and were so happy that we had such a great afternoon with David and Max.
She is One in a Million
The other thing we have been told is that this is a dominate trait passed on through our genes. This is not something that any of us knew before. Even with all the doctors in the family. This surgeon wanted us to all be aware of this dominate trait. He explained that each child has a 50/50 chance of carrying the gene and having this occur. My mothers father died from this, but no one knew it was because of a genetic problem, we always thought it was a complication from an accident that he had.
After Mom went into surgery, 6 of the 7 children and spouses were there together for the long 7 hour wait. Howard arrived by plane the next morning--as quickly as could be arranged. The surgery went as perfectly as could be imagined. She was on bypass for 3 hours and then circulatory arrest for 19 minutes. They had to cool her body, blood, and brain to 18 degrees before they could put her into circulatory arrest. The surgeon said it was a perfect surgery. He said my mother was in great shape and that helped her surgery run perfectly. Around midnight she came out of surgery and we were able to go in and see her an hour later.
It was nice to sit with all the siblings (in-laws included). We talked a lot, shared stories, smiled. I sat there looking at this marvelous family. So accomplished, so in unison, and so loving. Each child biological or not are part of the oneness we have. What a legacy, a miraculous family, with miraculous events… I know of no other family that causes me such pause, a wonder of awe. The friendship among us is a gift that few in the world ever get to experience. I looked at each one and thought it is so pure and glorious, the legacy of Mom and Dad… But Mom… I am so thankful you are still here to be a mother and a grandmother; there is nothing more beautiful to me than you.
Friday, April 4, 2008
Dragon Slayers...
SAY CHEESE!!!!
Thursday, April 3, 2008
This is such a fun age... Elijah's eyes are always wide open, seeking, focusing, and trying to understand and say new words and meanings. He loves to repeat what you say. But he loves the word noooooo (see the video in the at the end of the Easter section, titled "NO"). He says it in such a cute way you just want to gobble him up. This little boy wants to be held 24/7. I don't see him growing out of the baby stage any time soon. He wants to be the youngest, "Hold jyooo" he loves to say. One of his favorite words is "essss" for yes. When ever he says no, and we want him to say Yes, we look at him and say, "Say Yes"... "ESSSSS", he says and then giggles. Ah... don't you just want to pinch his cheeks? He thinks it is so funny when you play with his cheeks. He is all about attention! Except for when he's not. OH BOY, he will throw his whole body away from you, and who ever is holding him must hold on to him for dear life, or he will pop right out of your arms and get hurt. - He loves to throw his food as soon as he is finished eating. All of a sudden wham! There goes the rest of dinner and out comes the cleaning supplies. Thank goodness for tile floors! The joys we all go through as parents. But don't we just love them anyway?! I feel really blessed that he has been our only food thrower - neither of the other two ever threw their food. They just said all done, or would shake their head and hold their lips tight together. So to experience true parenthood... we have our Elijah. Cute and messy!